What Are The Usual Deal Breakers in Online Dating

By Janine Hanson

Meeting and dating some online is not different in meeting and dating someone offline. They both have same course before you can have a good date as it should be. When it comes to online dating, you should have to communicate first with that someone via electronic mail or by phone chat before personally meeting them in person. And once you have met that someone personally, there might be a chance for a second date or not. Similar when you meet a certain person offline before going on a first date. To make things work out well, you should avoid these common mistakes for you to have a memorable first date in online dating...

#1: Being serious too soon Even if you met a person online and had conversation or still having by email, chatting and talking over the phone, it does not mean that both of you are bound to be together as husband and wife. Even if both of you decided to meet in person, you should never assume that you are meant to be. That is too pathetic. You should get a hold of yourself whether it is offline dating or online dating. And you must keep that in mind. Too much expectation will only lead to a melancholic romance life and a broken heart. You should be just friends first to know each other well, and in time this might get into a good serious relationship. Give and have time to grow before you indulge into a commitment especially if you are looking for a long term partner.

Deal Breaker #2: Talking about too personal subjects during your very first date You should never talk about too personal issues during your very first date or when you just met her at a certain social gathering or online. Debatable subjects like religions, way of life, political opinions, and other personal things that might upset a woman. If you are already in a commitment, then that is the proper time to talk about these issues. But for the mean time, do not converse this kind of subjects.

Deal Breaker #3: Cynical person Cynical person is certainly a turn off. The usual mistake men do is talking about their past relationship, like talking about their ex wife or ex girlfriend, saying harsh about the experience and being nostalgic about what happened while you are trying to be on a date. It is not advisable to force yourself doing this kind of dating if you are still not over on your past relationship. It might upset the other person and might lose her interest. You should stop thinking about the past first and if you are ready for a new relationship, then that is the time to meet new individuals.

Common Mistake #4: Giving out too much personal information about you Be careful in giving out too much personal information about you. This might cause a big problem. Always remember that you are chatting with an unfamiliar person, even if you feel at ease when talking to them, you still have no assurance that you are in safe hands when you decided to meet them in person . For that reason, do not easily tell where you live or phone number, keep it confidential. Do not trust easily. It is really a mistake. You'll never know if the person has bad intention or not. - 31368

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