Dating Tips For Men- Speed Dating Tips for Beginners

By Janine Hanson

Are you a first timer in speed dating? Here are some speed dating tips that will help you in making a good first impression when you starting to be in one of the newest style of dating. When we are talking about speed dating, you will only have a few minutes to make an outstanding impact on each woman you'll meet, for this reason it is really important to give your best effort in getting your perfect date. Of course you are all familiar with this proverb, "there is no second chance to make a first impression" or "First impression last". Actually this is really true especially in speed dating.

Follow these effective tips in speed dating to be successful in getting a good date

Tip No.1: Your look is very important

The way you look is really important. Actually, it is very surprising to know that a lot of guys show up in speed dating event dressed up like they are just hanging out at home. Too casual. Well I did not say that you should dress like you are attending to an opera, though, you should at least dress appropriately like eating in a fine dining. If you come across to a woman that you find very interesting, she might think that you are a bum. She is not going to pay much interest on what you are saying, even if you complimented her, she won't be thankful.

#2 Tip: Tell something first to begin a conversation

If you are just smiling and very timid on speed dating, you are just wasting your precious time. That is really a mistake. Who wants to waste their precious minutes on a person who is very timid as if you are a stunned worm? Instead, ask a few questions that will entail some ideas and get a good response quickly. Like, what is her favorite cuisine and why? What is her passion and her hobbies? Memorable things or experience? Share your own thoughts as well so that they have an idea about you.

Third Step: Understand her body language

There are lots of signs to know if a woman is really interested in you, understanding her body language. You can also tell if she is nervous like looping up her hair strands, she's tapping her fingers constantly, and other moves she makes. Now if you see this, tell her about your good intention in dating her in a good approach. Show your lovely smile to make her feel at ease. If the woman crosses her arms over her chest, leans back and she doesn't look at you directly, maybe you are doing something wrong that she didn't like. This type of gestures means she is not really interested or she feeling upset.

Fourth Step: You should compliment her

Give flattery comments about only if you are sincere. Because a woman can easily sense if you are lying just to get catch her attention, and for that reason she might easily lose her interest knowing you. By giving her flatter comments with sincerity makes a nice impression about you and makes it a memorable experience. Always bring out your buoyant side to get a good date or even a partner. - 31368

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