How to Make Up With Your Girlfriend

By Sara Summers

Wondering how you can get back with your ex girlfriend? The first thing you should know is that breaking up is a very delicate situation. Your feelings and her feelings are both hurt so it is important that you are careful about what you're doing, otherwise it will be worse. Here are the considerations that you need to make when it comes to figuring out how to get back with your ex girlfriend.

1 - It is the most important thing to know what was it that you did that made your ex girlfriend broke up with you? Many girls often do not break up with a guy they love so easily. There must be a really good reason behind why she broke up with you, even if you may not be aware of what it really is. Your first step is to figure out what went wrong in the relationship. Find out whether it could have been prevented, and in what ways can you now fix it since you already realize the real reason behind the break up.

2 - Did your ex girlfriend break up because it was completely your fault? If it is your own fault, then you should let your ex girlfriend know that you realize your mistakes and what has happened,and that you know it was all your fault. You apologize to her and express that you are genuinely sorry for your actions that made her very upset and get mad at you that she broke up with you.

3 - Even if you are now doing your best to court your ex girlfriend again, you still need to socialize and go out. Just because your ex girlfriend just broke up with you does not mean that you also need to isolate yourself from everyone else. You can date another girl, or at least go out and have some fun with your friends. A bit of jealousy can work to your own advantage and help you get her back.

4 - Show your ex girlfriend that you do still care about her, even if you might have already moved on. It is essential for her to know if you really want her back. Let her know that you still have feelings for her. You will be more desirable and more mature in her eyes, and that will make her want you back.

5 - Finally, it is important that you work hard to become friends with your ex again. This will build trust, and will help to make you closer to one another. Afterwards, you should ask her why you broke up in the first place, but be casual about it rather than appearing desperate. She will either admit that it was a mistake that the two of you broke up, or she will let you know that the break up was for the better. Once you have an answer, you can proceed from there. - 31368

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Lost That Lovin' Feeling?

By Haylee Landford

Valentine's Day approaches, saturated in romantic opportunities. If you are one of the millions of Valentine's Day celebrators that are married, maybe you are running out of ideas of how to keep connected with your spouse. It doesn't have to be Valentine's Day for you to try these relationship building tactics.

It goes without saying that you should find the similarities that you have with your spouse, but are the differences really that bad? I suggest having a two-faced date night. You start by spending the first half of the evening doing whatever the wife wants to do, and the second half doing what the husband wants to do.

This does require you to be a good sport when it's your significant other's turn. But, this way you each learn new things about how the other enjoys spending their time. You may be surprised when your husband wants to go thrift store shopping or your wife wants to go to the arcade.

Another way to bond is not waiting for a power outage to like some candles. Or you can even be safe with some soft lamps, lanterns, or flashlights. The whole point is to then sit down and read a book together. The dim lights make it quite necessary to get a close together as possible in read the words.

Books are always a good idea in a relationship for stimulating good conversation. You will love all you learn about each other as you discuss the themes, topics and ideas from the books you read. A good example is that by seeing how your spouse sees and understands certain characters, you can use that to see a different side to them.

Giving presents is a sure fire winner, but why not trying something much less expensive. The modern world of fast communication has robbed us of the good old fashioned love letter. Many movies and stories have glamorized the joy of writing and receiving letters from someone you love.

Surprise your spouse with a letter in the mailbox expressing the sweet feelings you have for them. Send it from work, or just the post office, and the mystery will bring such a smile to their face when they know it's from you. Plus, it only costs a stamp.

If your spouse is lucky enough for you to afford a lavish present, why not get the most substantial gift your money can buy. Imagine the gesture of giving your loved one acres of land or property. It is a sure expression of the longevity you see in your marriage. You could give it as the future site for a custom built home, which would thrill any wife.

Plus, there isn't any kind of man that doesn't feel the self importance of owning his own land. It's such a sure concrete expression of the immense feelings you have. Plus, land is a commodity that will always hold value.

With all this said, nothing can replace the time you spend together. Whatever you do or give, just making the better half of yourself feel worth your time, is the most precious gift. In your own way, be sure to do it with all your heart. - 31368

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Expressing Love To Your Valentine Without Going Broke

By Adriana Noton

Valentine's Day is one of those special holidays that you let that special someone know how you feel about them. With this holiday becoming so commercialized, it can often seem as though expressing your love can be very expensive, especially when one is on a tight budget. Fortunately, expressing love to your Valentine does not mean you have to go broke. There are a number of easy ways you can express your love without looking cheap. Below are a number of tips to make your holiday special without breaking your budget.

1. Many couples will go out to dinner on Valentine's Day. When on a tight budget, this can often end up being a very expensive dining experience with the price hampering the romantic mood. One suggestion is to check the newspaper and coupon books for special Valentine Day specials. You can often find a two for one deal on special Valentine Day's meals. If you are unable to find an affordable restaurant, you can always stay at home and make a special homemade meal. You will save a substantial amount of money if you shop for ingredients that are on sale. As well, you can be creative and romantic by having a candlelight dinner with romantic music. If you want to make a night of it, you can rent a romantic movie to watch after dinner.

2. Create your own special home spa bath. You can light scented candles in a bathroom, play romantic music in the background, and relax in a warm bubble bath. There are a number of stores such as 'Dollar Stores' that sell inexpensive scented bubble bath, bath salts, massage oils, and scented soaps. A warm bubble bath for two while drinking a glass of wine is a romantic and inexpensive way to spend Valentine's Day.

3. Flowers are a traditional Valentine's Day gift. Many people think a bouquet of flowers are expensive. However, you can often buy cheaper flowers at a supermarket or if you have a flower garden, you can pick them yourself to make a creative bouquet. If you purchase flowers, you can create a beautiful blend of less expensive flowers.

4. Making homemade gifts can often mean more than a store bought gift. You can make a homemade mini scrapbook highlighting the special moments of your relationship. You can find inexpensive scrapbooks and accessories at discount stores or department stores. Special items to put in the scrapbook can include pictures, ticket stubs for a special concert, a menu or business card of the first restaurant where you ate, etc.

For people who love romance, Valentine's Day is a very special time to express their love. During difficult economic times, it can be tough to come up with an inexpensive way to celebrate the holiday. If you find yourself tightening your budget because of the recent decline in the economy, you can still celebrate Valentine's Day. With a little careful financial planning such as setting money aside a few months before the special day, and coming up with an inexpensive way to celebrate the occasion, you may find that you have the most romantic time ever. - 31368

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A Word about Online Personals

By Jayde Johanssen

You've heard the story before. You've witnessed it on the big screen. In Hollywood flicks, like You've Got Mail and Must Love Dogs, the leading man and his female counterpart meet online and they fall in love. Virtual romance blossoms everywhere.

If you think about it, it's easy to trace the evolution of the whole online dating phenomenon. It's a consequence of email, instant messaging, and social networking. The internet has brought humans together in a way that never was possible before. The natural extension, of course, is online dating. And more now than ever before, people are using the internet to find romance.

At the beginning, online personals seemed just plain odd. It was something reserved for, misfits, losers and cranks. But today, that stigma has been shrugged off and legions of people are taking to the net with the hopes of finding companionship and the ever elusive true love.

The whole system is a work of genius. Charging a membership fee to allow singles to browse personal profiles is pure gold. Today the online personals industry is booming.

Online personals, like Match.com and relative newcomer Plenty of Fish have more members now than ever before. However, the internet dating phenomenon first became a hit around 2003-04. Monthly traffic hit 40 million in late August of 2003.

For those who aren't familiar with online personals, here's a short rundown. An online personal is basically a profile, similar to your Facebook or Myspace profile. Usually people include information about their personal interests, their physical attributes (height, weight, eye color, etc), race, religion, smoking and drinking habits, a short blurb or description of themselves, and a sentence or two about what they are looking for in a mate or partner.

Online daters communicate using private on site messaging. They can also send virtual hugs, winks, kisses, etc. Essentially, the gist is that users can look through different profiles, find the lucky lady or lad that sparks an interest, contact them and then eventually meet them in an offline setting, for a date.

Online daters are gung ho about the idea that they can find their soul mate online. It's much more precise than regular dating. Going to a bar, for instance, is basically like walking blindfolded into a minefield. It's hit or miss. Online, however, you can pick and choose; you narrow down the candidates and aim for the bull's eye.

And perhaps true love waits just beyond the flickering computer screen. That's the hope, after all.

Of course the online dating scene isn't without its pitfalls. Many people tend to fib. They exaggerate their physical characteristics. They put down phony birth dates, they lower their weight, they make themselves taller, blonder, tanner than they really are. Some people even post fake pictures.

Still, you can find romance if you look in the right places. It's easy to separate the bad eggs from the good ones and find your one true love. - 31368

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Romantic Songs

By Gail Jones

A song can tell you a lot about life, the person who wrote it, the person who sings it and the person who likes to listen to it.. Songs belong to different genres. Have you ever come across a genre which is immortal? If you did would it be about love or hatred? Of course, everybody would declare that 'love' is the most discussed, written and sung about by people of all races and nationalities. So, it is no surprise then to find out what makes a date worth cherishing?

Music invariably has something to do with it and music could actually style the mood of your date. Dating is such a great way of choosing your future lifetime spouse. When you are out on a date, see to it that the music is well-selected and that it generates a mood of romance.

People have composed all styles of songs, but the ones they write the best are love songs. Since the day the first love song was created, people's hearts have been melting. Songs of finding a new love, losing love, songs of inspiration, songs of moving on, songs about romance, first loves and the gush of emotions.

With all due respect to all the artists concerned and their fans too, here are some of the most popular songs of Romance. They demonstrate the feelings of two people in love during a very romantic date:

Truly, Madly, Deeply: (Savage Garden) - this duo's song speaks of a deep love and promises made to the other person.

I'd be your dream I'd be your wish I'd be your fantasy I'd be your hope, be your love Be everything that you need

This I Promise You: (N-Sync) - this group filled the airwaves with love. This song is really a promise of a lifetime's commitment. It is often used as a wedding song.

And I will take you in my arms And hold you right where you belong Until the day my life is through This I promise you

Iris: (Goo Goo Dolls) - it gained popularity not just because of the film in which it featured, but because the song touches the heart.

And I don't want the world to see me Cause I don't think that they'd understand When everything's made to be broken - I just want you to know who I am.

Dreaming of You: (Selina) - the singer died tragically, but the song lives on. It is a light song, but it goes straight to the heart.

I'm dreaming of you tonight 'Til tomorrow And for all of my life And there's nowhere in the world I'd rather be.

Songs will always be a big part of courtship and that usually begins with a date. Music is the food of love and music is one of the greatest inventions of mankind. Generations always have, and generations always will, continue to keep the tradition going. Music not only induces love and romance, but it also keeps love and romance alive. - 31368

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Where to Find Cheap Tickets for Valetines Day Events

By Rachel Montay

V-Day is here, so why not be the best guy or gal and surprise your boyfriend or girlfriend with a cool gift? There are a lot cool Valentines Day events going on this year. And if you can get your tickets early, you will save a lot. Check the Broadway listings. Looped is a great show that will be around for Valentine's Day. NBA games are cheap and so are hockey games. Why not be different this year and take your partner to a great event?

If you're looking for great gifts for guys, you should look into getting sporting event tickets. Your boyfriend will adore you even more and you come out looking like the best girlfriend ever. You know you can expect an even better birthday gift for YOUR birthday. Last year, I bought my husband two tickets to the Knicks game with seats next to Spike Lee! He was so overjoyed, I loved it.

My husband was so delighted in the game tickets that he bought me a diamond necklace the following week. What a great turnaround! I felt like I discovered the secret to keep a man happy. For women, it's diamonds. For men, it's watching a game. I've already got a headstart this year because we're going to an NFL playoff game. It's an early Valentines gift.

Now if you're looking for Valentine Day gifts for your wife or girlfriend, why not take her to the theatre or a concert? There are some great deals going on right now for Broadway shows and concerts. But you need to hurry and get them because prices go up near the actual day.

Many people hate Valentine's Day, especially if they don't have anyone to share it with. Even if you don't have a partner, treat yourself and attend a show or concert. - 31368

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Heart Jewelry Dates Back To WHEN???

By Betsy Johnson

We have received so many wonderful responses on the articles regarding heart jewelry that we have written in the past. We thank you so much. Today we would like to write a more generic article regarding the history of jewelry in general. "Jewelry Making" as an art form has been around for thousands of years, and we see that different cultures have incorporated it in various ways. When we examine these pieces of jewelry we gain insight into how these various cultures worked...

In Ancient Africa the homo sapiens provide us with the first signs of a culture using jewelry. Snail shell beads have been found at the Blombos Cave in South Africa that date back to over 75,000 years ago. At Enkapune Ya Moto in Kenya beads made from ostrich egg shells have been found that date back to over 40,000 years ago.

When we think of Egypt images of the Great Pyramids and the Ancient Sphinx come to mind. And jewelry making? Not so much...but it is in Ancient Egypt (about 3,000 to 5,000 years ago) that we find the first signs of established jewelry making. Egyptians made their jewelry out of many of the materials that we use today...such as gemstones, but they preferred to make their jewelry out of glass, as it could be colored to satisfy their needs and tastes. For every gemstone that they could find, they were able to create a glass replication that could mimic it. As years went on, other cultures, such as the Phoenicians, used Egyptian jewelry as a template for their own designs.

Color was very important for the Ancient Egyptians. To them, different colors meant different things. If we would like to examine this matter further, we need to look no further than the Book of the Dead. It tells us that the necklace of Isis that was to be placed on the mummy's desk needed to be red. The color red would satisfy Isis's need for blood. Green jewelry on the other hand symbolized new growth in the area of fertility and crops. Egyptian jewelry was made primarily in large workshops that were attached to temples and palaces.

Around 4000 years ago, in the cities of Sumer and Akkad in Ancient Mesopotamia, jewelry development and production started to spring up. This jewelry was often made from metal leaf. It was often set in a large number of brightly-colored stones (such as lapis, jasper, carnelian, and agate). Various shapes, such as grapes, leafs, spirals and cones were also incorporated into their various designs. The Ancient Mesopotamians were also masters in the area of record keeping, and they have found in various archaeological sites huge archives of detailed records relating to not only the creation, but the trading, of jewelry.

We hope this little departure from our usual heart jewelry articles has been fun and educational. It's amazing to see how jewelry making as evolved over the years. - 31368

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How To Flirt The Right Way

By Tony Johnson

Men and girls flirt differently, for various reasons and expect totally different outcomes to the flirting. But, if you put aside that outcome and flirt just to be friendly you're opening yourself to completely different opportunities. You will well finish up with a brand new lover however if that doesn't determine you'll meet someone who becomes a sensible friend and who knows who she may introduce you to. Keep your options open.

After you have exchanged glances and smiles across a area and you are fairly confident that SHE thinks that she may like to get to grasp you higher, send a drink to her. However bear in mind that ALL you're shopping for may be a drink. Don't expect her to fall at your feet. Generally it's nice just to send someone a drink, watch when she receives it and smile, then look away - remember once more later to point out your interest.

If you discover yourself invited to her table, keep you mind on the conversation and not on getting a date with her. Most girls wish to know what kind of person they are going out with long before they actually move out with them. Build an attempt to induce to grasp her and provide her the opportunity to get to grasp you before diving in for a date.

Don't ever approach two ladies in the identical group. No lady wants to feel like second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the identical group. You look like a loser and the ladies could think you are desperate and looking for any port in a very storm. Even if you are, don't show it.

When you compliment a lady build bound that it's a genuine compliment. There's nothing worse than someone giving out a load of overblown lines. Everybody has one thing nice regarding them, notice that and compliment them genuinely.

Don't ever put your hands on a woman uninvited. Some ladies don't have any objection to 'touchy feely' encounters, others are horrified by it. Respect the person till you've got had the opportunity to grasp additional regarding her. Touching can be a lovely flirty action, but ought to be confined to the arms or resting the hand just on top of the arms and NOT touching, until you recognize more. Test the personal space by moving nearer, noticing the reactions then moving back a little to remove the threat.

Respect yourself at all times. Ladies always fall for men who are that small bit unreachable. Do not hover or grovel or act desperate. Suppose of yourself as special and understand what you deserve the very best. - 31368

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Taking A Romantic Cruise In Paris

By Owen Jones

If you are feeling romantic and you want to be alone with your loved one in a romantic place far from humdrum distractions, why not go to Paris and take a cruise? The cruise ships are gorgeous and offer haute cuisine with fine wines and a wide range of dishes. Service on board is superb and if they know that it is a special trip for you, they will go out of their way to make it even more special.

Just by choosing the city of Paris as your venue, you will be conveying the impression of romance, because as everybody knows, Paris has the reputation of being the capital of the world of romance.

So, how do you go about booking one of these cruises? Well, clearly, first of all, you have to be in Paris. This is not a difficulty, if you live in Europe as there are flights and sleeper trains. If you are American, you will have to take the longer-term view and start saving for next year.

Once in your hotel in Paris, you can either ask reception for details or go to one of the many Tourist Information Centres, where everyone speaks English. The cruise line staff will pick you up from your hotel on the appointed day, so that you will not have the hassle of having to find your way through a strange, busy city on your own.

Once on board, the pampering starts with your welcoming on board and a free drink to light the fires of romance. You will enjoy four or more hours of this, depending on which cruise you opt for, but they are all wonderfully romantic voyages aboard beautiful cruise liners.

Generally speaking, the cruise will start on the left bank of the river Seine, usually in the vicinity of the Eiffel Tower. Some of these boats are made of a type of plastic glass, so that your view of the streets and monuments is unimpeded. And of course, all the sights are lit up at night and in quite a spectacular manner too. You will also be able to gaze downwards into the water itself.

As you cruise on this glass boat you will be entertained by some of the finest musicians that Paris can offer you. Solo instrumentalists; quartets; classical music; solo artiste singers or a duet. There are also cruises with more modern music as well, but I don't find them as romantic as the more traditional stuff. However, you can take all these particulars into account when you book your romantic cruise in Paris.

You will not only pass by celebrated landmarks, you will also pass very close by them and even underneath them. Famous bridges; Notre Dame; the Louvre, and many more. Not only that, but you will see all these fantastic historical monuments while being pampered by the best hosts that Paris has to offer and drinking fine wines and champagne, seated at the bow of the cruiser in luxury.

Once your romantic cruise and your meal are over, you will be taken to a sumptuous show on the Champs Elysees, where you will be provided with a half bottle of champagne on entry. There is no need to worry about driving, so let your hair down and enjoy yourselves.

When you have had enough of the high life, you will be taken back to your hotel, in the same manner that you were picked up. However, there are other choices too. You may want to go back to the hotel on a romantic horse and carriage, it will maintain that romantic mood.

Once you get back to your hotel, why not both get in the bath together? Light a few fragrant candles, open another bottle of wine and play some soft music. It will be an evening you will both remember for the rest of your lives, I assure you. - 31368

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Desperately Trying To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back?

By Sara Summers

After your breakup, you keep asking yourself "How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back?" and think about everything that you could have done differently. You even make plans writing apology letters and other things that might be able to help you get your girlfriend back.

You know you are desperate to get your girlfriend back. But, do you really know what went wrong in your relationship? The real reasons for the breakup might be puzzling you. But it is better to stop thinking about it and move on with your life.

If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, the main strategy is to forget about your relationship for a while, and focus your energy into your hobbies or something else. Have fun and forget about women in general. Go away for at least two months, enjoy your vacation and make changes in your life. Taking some time away from your ex girlfriend will work wonders. It will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. After a few months, you will get a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your relationship with your ex girlfriend.

Be honest to yourself. Do you still want to get back together with your girlfriend or you are more interested in moving on with your life? If you still want to get her back, then you should try to figure out her feelings about you.

However, do not try to beg your girlfriend to get back with you. It will only scare her away. Do not insist yourself. If you have been apart from her for some time, she is probably missing you as much as you are missing her. Be a little hard to get but do not over do it. Just try to show her that you are doing fine without her. This will make her rethink things between the two of you.

Remember, if she is really meant for you, she will get back with you. Just be patient, and be careful not to analyze things too much. Take it slow and you should be fine. - 31368

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The Happy Life of the Wedding Cake

By Sue Toliver

There are so many different options and choices available to us today. We can contact people by traditional phone, smart phone, regular cell phone, email, or regular mail. If we want to get somewhere we can drive a car, take a bus, ride a bike, or stroll along. Given all the options available to us today, it's only natural that this variety should work its way into one of our most cherished traditions...that of the wedding cake. Selecting the flavor of the cake and the color of the icing is just getting started. You will need to take some time to choose the best wedding cake topper for your special cake. In this article we will be examining the world of the wedding cake, providing some background details on the tradition, and working on up to the selection process of the perfect topper for that very special wedding cake.

The wedding cake is usually strategically displayed during the wedding reception. Often towering into the heavens, it competes with the bride as the "center of attention" on her big day. This special work of art establishes a focal point that the other aspects of the reception will revolve around. For those who prefer a bit of the dramatic, the wedding cake can be wheeled in at the end of the wedding reception for a "grand entrance" for everyone to see. To many people this grand entrance will trigger the memories of the bride who walked down the aisle earlier in the day.

In The Beginning

The wedding cake has certainly evolved over the years. It started off as a simple symbol of fertility, but has transformed itself into an artistic tradition that can have many different interpretations. For many ancient peoples wheat was a symbol of both fertility and a bountiful harvest. The Ancient Romans used to throw grains of wheat at the bride and groom in a "wish of fertility" to the new couple during their union. This custom evolved into bringing little cakes made from wheat to the wedding banquet. They would then crumble this cake over the head of the bride to wish them "many children", and the guests would then eat the crumbs as a symbol of sharing in the couple's good fortune.

Did you know that this "crumbling of the cake" over the bride's head might have evolved into another wedding day tradition? Do you know what that tradition is? In order to shield the hapless bride from the shower that is to come, bridesmaids eventually draped a cloth over her head before the "crumbling tradition" took place. Many believe that this simple cloth evolved into the modern day wedding veil.

Welcome The Middle Ages

During the Middle Ages buns or sweet rolls had replaced the original wheat cakes, but it was still very customary for guests to bring these tasty treats to the wedding. Placed in a huge pile between the bride and groom, if the happy couple was able to kiss over this huge stack of wheat, it was believed that they would be blessed with many children.

It is commonly believed that the next step in the evolution of the traditional cake was performed by a French pastry chef during the 17th century. During a trip to London he happened to observe this "cake piling" ceremony. Upon his return to France he dusted the stack of buns with sugar, and thereby "cemented" them together into one tasty art form. This was to become the first rendition of the tiered and frosted wedding cake, and a forerunner as to what was to come in the years ahead.

The Classic

Are you familiar with the classic style of the modern day wedding cake? You know, the one with the distinctive design of smaller tiers as the cake builds vertically? It is believed that this model was inspired by the spire of the 14th century Saint Bride's church in London. How's that for a bit of trivia for you?

Victorian England has brought us many of today's valued wedding traditions. For example, Queen Victoria herself is said to have had a cake that weighed in at 300 lbs. As confectioners and bakers became more daring and skillful, their creations became even more daring and elaborate. When England's Princess Elizabeth and Prince Phillip were married back in 1947, their wedding cake weighed in at a whopping 500 lbs, and was 9 feet tall.

The Version of Today

Today, the elaborate wedding cake is no longer reserved for only the rich and famous. Every couple can share in the tradition of having a fantastic wedding cake added to their big day. The wedding cake specialists of today have taken their art form to towering heights (please pardon the pun). Long gone are those bland and boring days when you were limited to a traditional white cake with regular white frosting. Although a white cake will probably always be the most popular (due to its traditional meaning), today's couple is limited only by the limits of their budget and imagination when it comes to their wedding cake.

Why The White Color?

Do you happen to know why white is the customary color of a wedding cake? As the story goes, back in Victorian times the finer ingredients of a wedding cake were scarce and expensive and very hard to come by. If the cake had a white icing, this revealed the fact that only the best and most expensive white sugar was being used in the process. Brown sugar was much more common back then, and therefore much less expensive. So, the more white the cake, the richer the people who owned the cake were.

Plan Ahead

The most important thing to remember when choosing that special cake for your big day is to not leave it till the last minute. Whether you choose a talented family member, the local baker, or a pastry chef who specializes in these tasty masterpieces, if you plan well in advance you will be able to navigate the difficult waters of whatever obstacles might come your way. Although some bakers require only a minimum notice, many are booked far in advance. It's a shame to have that perfect cake of your imagination be "canned" due to the fact you cannot allocate a baker's time.

What if you have no idea who will be baking your wedding cake? If you don't have a particular baker in mind, you have a bit of homework to do. Shop around and get some recommendations from family and friends. Investigate the yellow pages and the internet as they are both valuable informational resources. If you happen to be surfing the web you will find that many bakers today are posting photos of some of their masterpieces. As a sort of masterpiece gallery, they showcase what they are capable of producing, and this will jog your imagination as to what you would like your own wedding cake to look like.

Consider The Budget

Be sure to be mindful of your budget before you let your imagination get the best of you. You want your wedding day to be one of celebration, not the day that you started your journey into debt. Many people are surprised at the cost of a wedding cake these days. Keep in mind that you are asking an artisan to create a colorful masterpiece for you, and this can often be reflected in the price that he/she will be asking. The cost of labor is often the largest expense in the creation of a wedding cake, but also keep in mind the simple fact that fondant is more expensive than buttercream.

Have you thought about the staging of your masterpiece? Be sure to take the wedding cake stand into consideration during your planning phase. While some wedding cakes can be simply placed on flat boards (that will not be seen by the general public), others are elaborately displayed on beautiful stands for everyone to see. Keep in mind the simple fact that actual size of the table must be in proportion to the actual size of the cake. A table that is too small will make the cake look way too big, while a table that is too large will make it look like a mere cupcake. And before we forget, your cake table will need a beautiful covering (to compliment its strategic location at the wedding reception). Oh, and don't forget the cake knife and cake server. There needs to be a place on the table for these two items as well.

The Topper For The Wedding Cake

Topping off that special cake is the wedding cake topper. The wedding cake topper is the simple name for the decoration that sits atop a wedding cake. While it is true that some couples prefer to have simple elegance of an unadorned cake, many prefer to have that final "crowning touch", the wedding cake topper, added to the upper layer. The simple plastic "bride and groom" of yesteryear has more likely been replaced by the classic porcelain figurine of today.

What types of wedding cake toppers are available today? We are glad you asked. Many different types of figures are available, from the classic poses to figurines depicting some of the potentially "humorous" aspects of the wedding (such as a bride dragging the hapless groom back to the altar). Personalized wedding cake toppers are also popular, while niche toppers such as a marine marriage have their place as well.

The Conclusion

We have so much information to provide, but there is only so much detail that one can go into in a single web article. If you would like to learn more about wedding cakes (and wedding cake toppers) please come and visit us on our blog. - 31368

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What You Can Do About A Break Up

By Alex Hochman

One of the best things in life we get to experience is relationships. We get the loving relationships of relatives. We have those wonderful relationships with our children. And last but not least we get the wonderful experiences of relationships with the opposite sex. But there will be times when those relationships go wrong. For reasons that maybe aren't clear a breakup occurs. When that occurs, it is one of the most difficult experiences you can have happen to you.

In this article what we are going to do is examine a few things that we can do to try and mend the relationship. So hopefully it will give you some ideas on how to get your ex back.

Now of course in order to try and fix the relationship you need a few things. First and foremost you need to look at yourself. You have to determine if the cause of the breakup was on your end. If that was the case, it is a start. Because unless you admit to being at fault you can never fix it. But if you do admit it, you can begin the quest on learning how to get your ex girlfriend back.

Now in the times that it may not have been your fault, you are going to have to try and understand the other person. For women you are going to have to know why your boyfriend left. There can be a lot of different reasons. Could it possibly have been a situation where they didn't want to get too serious? Whatever it could be you need to know why they left. Once you do that you can begin the process of learning how to get your ex boyfriend back.

You probably are picking up on the theme here. That theme is knowing what caused the breakup. Being able to know that is going to help a lot in trying to fix the relationship. If you don't know that how can you even begin.

But the moment you begin to understand, then you have a place to try to begin. From there on out you can begin to try to mend the relationship. - 31368

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Getting Love With Atlanta Love Coaching

By Kenya Saab

Whether you know you are beautiful or not, every woman needs to be reminded. Until they really know this and see this, they might not succeed when it comes to love. Women in Atlanta are learning this with the woman in charge of Atlanta love coaching. With Amber, women learn to see who they really are and show their goods and a very polite, but passionate way.

Join Amber as she teaches you how to really oepn up and see yourself as the beautiful woman you are. When you do this, you will have a greater love for yourself and you will feel good about yourself. You will feel so good that you will not worry about how you will sound when you talk about yourself to a guy that you are totally digging.

Here you learn what flirting is all about. You learn that it is an art, but the things that can come from it are truly amazing. It's a way of living to get the dreams that you have desired in a guy to totally come true. When this happens, love happens and it is a beautiful thing.

Before long, women are able to learn the essentials of dating. Women who were normally quiet they break out of their shells. Some women learn how to really show men what they want without pushing it on them. You begin to see yourself as a woman who has wants and needs but goes about it in nicer manner as you feel good about yourself.

You will also be able to appreciate who you are. You are beautiful and you won't need people to tell you this. You will see it for yourself. You will be able to have more confidence in yourself as well as be able to talk to people whenever and wherever. You'll also be able to catch that guy.

All this is done when you go through Atlanta love coaching. This can help some of those women who have been dumped but don't know why. Many lose touch with themselves and are left wondering how any guy could love them. Remember, you are truly amazing and Amber helps you to see this. - 31368

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A Romantic Weekend Is In Your Future - Tips And Ideas To Help Make It Happen

By Roshelle Krung

You need some romantic weekend ideas to help get you within the mood. Well, here are a few things we were able to come up with. Be at liberty to borrow them whole or to adapt them to one thing you know your sweetheart will appreciate.

Candlelight dinner is outstanding among romantic weekend ideas. It doesn't matter if you are at home, in a fancy restaurant, or on a camping trip, candlelight forever adds to the mood. Any meal becomes more intimate when you go to the trouble of beginning candles and having them lit for dinner.

Flowers are one amongst the best romantic weekend ideas. Having flowers delivered or picking up a bouquet and giving it to her (or him) on a whim, turns any weekend into a romantic one. Show the one you love that it doesn't should be a special occasion for you to require note of how special they're, and saying it with flowers forever make it one in every of the most romantic weekend ideas.

Breakfast in bed is usually one among the favorite romantic weekend concepts for most people. A small vase of flowers along together with your darling's favorite breakfast foods, ready by your own loving hands, invariably wins the day for best romantic weekend ideas.

Simply a easy note card left on the bedroom dresser is one in every of the simplest romantic weekend ideas we've found. Imagine obtaining out of bed on an otherwise average Saturday morning to search out that the one you love has left you a note card with poetry or some easy lines expressing how a lot of they love you. This simple, thoughtful gesture is one of the most affective romantic weekend ideas, because it changes the mood of the whole day into an expression of affection and devotion.

A picnic for 2 is a nice one of many romantic weekend ideas. You'll arrange it to take place at the local park, or by the lake, at the ocean, or any of the places you recognize that your love considers special. Be positive to create up a basket of your lover's favorite foods, and embrace a bottle of wine to help set the mood.

An opening within the day for a walk within the park is simple and romantic. Tell you beloved that you wish to steel them away for just a small amount and enjoy a stroll in your favorite park. Make the time you pay there intimate and special. Be positive to carry hands and not to speak regarding anything related to figure or the kids, or at all outside of your regard for one another. You'll be surprised to find that this inspired, but impulsive time together ranks mutually of your loved one's favorite romantic weekend ideas.

Alternative romantic weekend ideas are a lot of obvious, like a weekend trip, a romantic movie, dinner at a fine restaurant, a present of jewellery, etc. We tend to, but, prefer the straightforward, impulsive expressions of affection that do not have to require a lot of designing or even abundant money. And, whereas these are romantic weekend concepts, trying some of them throughout the week is even more impulsive and so, additional romantic. - 31368

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Atlanta GA Love Coach Amber Leigh Salisbury Helps Women Feel Sexy

By Elinor Hain

Everyday life can take its toll on women, making them feel less confident and beautiful. This lack of self-esteem can manifest itself in many ways, preventing a woman from being successful in love and even in her career. Many women seek to regain that confidence, but are unsure of how to do so. Atlanta love coaching with Amber Leigh Salisbury might have the answer to making women feel sexy again.

Amber, an internationally renowned public speaker and radio host, is releasing a book titled "Turn Your Flirt On!" to help women feel sexy again. She is also conducting a series of workshops for women in Atlanta during the month of February that has the same title.

Amber is using her education in Psychology, spiritual practices, and Sociology to help women improve their lives through feeling more confident. She is no stranger to this type of coaching and has even worked with celebrities, musicians, and athletes.

Through "Turn Your Flirt On!, " Amber aims to show women that in order to love another, they must first love themselves. Her seminars will help show women how to truly appreciate themselves for who they are and be proud of themselves.

Women will also learn the art of feeling and acting flirtatiously. In order to do so, Amber will teach women about feeling more fulfilled within their lives, gain self-esteem, and make others feel good about themselves.

Amber states that this course is for anyone who wants to rediscover their charm and get more out of life. Participants can expect to feel a higher appreciation for themselves, increased confidence, and the ability to obtain what they desire.

Atlanta love coaching with Amber Leigh Salisbury might just help you find your inner flirt. At the same time, you might just learn to appreciate yourself more and feel more confident. - 31368

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Great Romantic Gift Ideas For Your Husband Or Wife

By Charles de Chunac

Searching for the best romantic gifts ideas can be done at any time of the year, why wait until Valentines Day or a birthday. But the problem can be trying to decide what gift to choose and this can become more difficult the longer you are together, it is all too easy to end up giving the same gift each year.

To start with you should try to understand what type of gift could be seen as being romantic. Ask yourself if an expensive piece of jewellery bought with little thought is actually the right item. A more personalized gift will help to show that you have spent time considering your partners feelings.

Most women love to be pampered. A great choice of present for a woman of any age would be a gift basket that contains some of their most cherished things. This could include sweets, chocolates, wine, health and beauty products and even CD's of their favourite artists and bands. Such a personalized gift will bring you immense gratitude from them.

Flowers have traditionally always been seen as a romantic gift and this continues today. Instead of just choosing a random bunch why not select the flowers for the bouquet yourself. The more involved you get with the gift the more romantic it will be.

Now the easiest place to look for romantic gifts for men and women is online. The internet provides an incredible array of options as compared to most cities and towns. Also the convenience of being able to shop from home is far better than driving to a store. If you take time to research all the various options you may end up with a gift that is perfectly suited to your partner.

You may also want to consider a romantic getaway as a gift to your other half. It is not so difficult to arrange a chauffeur driven limousine and a special meal at a romantic hotel. Also nature can often create stronger feeling of love. Why not book a weekend away in an old fashioned log cabin in a beautiful location.

Maybe your idea of a romantic gift is to give your husband or wife a day at an upmarket sauna or spa. There is very little that can compare to the positive benefits felt after a professional massage or sauna. Any man or woman will feel happy at the chance to have a health makeover that makes them feel like a new person. - 31368

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A Buffer Zone

By Jayde Johanssen

Dating is a complicated kind of business. Dating provides endless opportunities for people to feel tremendously awkward and uncomfortable, making a buffoon out of themselves more often than not. While bad dates provide a plethora of great stories to tell at parties and to good friends, after one date too many the process can start to seem rather hopeless.

Frequenting places like bars and clubs might result in a fair amount of dates, but the quality of them is rather debatable. Once people exit the convenient institutions of college and venture out into the real world, meeting like minded individuals can become much more difficult. This kind of predicament often leads to people dipping their pen in the company ink which is rarely a good idea, work and love lives should be kept very far apart.

There are a whole lot of people in the world so finding a soul mate can take quite a bit of time and effort. Anyone who simply goes for the first person they can tolerate are just short changing themselves and should stick it out for what they really want. The creation of the internet and boom in popularity of dating sites provide a great alternative to the traditional practice of hitting up bars and clubs. These sites also help people who might have become jaded by the dating process and need a little more cushion before fully submerging themselves into the whole idea. People can check out the profiles of other individuals without anyone knowing unless they want to take it to the next level and make contact.

Many people hide their true feelings because they fear being turned away by the object of their desire. Dating hurts sometimes so working through the avenue of online dating helps people operate with a decreased fear of being hurt. Individuals can browse the profile of other people without anyone else ever knowing unless they choose to make contact through chatting or messages on the site. If the other party is not interested they can simply say so or avoid the advances of the other person. While it still might smart a little, this kind of rejection is much more forgiving than a face to face blow to the ego.

Communicating via the website also gives people the opportunity to see if another person really does share their interests without having to waste time with dates and awkward phonecalls.

This protected aspect of online dating services is really great for people who err more on the shy side. If a conversation is struck up between two people on a site they can get to know one another a little better before meeting face to face. Exchanging ideas, beliefs, and interests in conversations before actually meeting increases the chances that the first official date will be a success.

If a shy person can loosen up and establish some kind of connection with someone before meeting, there is a higher likelihood that the date will be more easy going and comfortable. Having a relaxed atmosphere to a date is the best way to promote its success and two people really making a genuine connection. - 31368

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Tips To Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back That Help

By Aaron Silverton

You have just recently split up with your girlfriend. She announced she no longer wants to be with you ; she wants to live a life without you. Your heart is devastated and you keep asking yourself, where am I able to get tips to get my ex-girlfriend back. It must've been your cheating or your being hot-headed that made her leave you. An unexpected breakup like yours can be repaired if you fervently follow the steps in winning back your ex-girlfriend. Here are one or two tips you can follow to make her take you back into her loving arms.

1. Give her time to think.

You have heard it from all your ex-girlfriends. Yes, women do need time to think. This is actually because they want to desist from making impetuous calls that they may regret in the end. Your ex-girlfriend desires time to weigh things between you and her. Make her miss you by not acting like a stalker.

2. Refine yourself.

She may have asked you to do so in the past, but you did not refine yourself in any way. She believed you became worse than before so she left you. The only way you can make her want you back is for you to show her that you have now become a better person. If you have cheated in the past, promise to yourself that you'll no longer do it again. If you are ill-tempered, exercise a small amount of patience on things. No lady would like a violent partner. Refine yourself and your methods while you are giving her time to think so that when she eventually wants to speak with you again, you are a better man.

3. Be sincere in speaking.

The next of the tips to get my ex-girlfriend back that you will find here is speaking sincerely. Tell your girl how hard it has been without her and how much you miss her. Make her know-how much you love her and how much prepared you are to change for the better for her and your relationship with her. This talk will be one of the bases of your ex-girlfriend's taking you back. If you do not do well with this, you have less probabilities of being with her again.

4. Be extra romantic.

maybe you aren't the sort of guy who believes in anniversaries and romanticism, except for once, you have to surprise your ex-girlfriend by being extra romantic. Bring her a bouquet of flowers or take her to a candlelit dinner. You know you may do anything to win her back, why don't you try to be romantic this time? Your girl will appreciate your attempts more if you do this.

5. Keep your guarantees.

When the tips to get my ex-girlfriend back finally worked on you, you would have to keep the guarantees you said to your girl on the night you talked to her. You cannot afford to break any more promise as this will only ruin the relationship you simply managed to salvage. - 31368

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Finding Love

By Jayde Johanssen

The idea of finding someone to connect with perfectly is a bit of a scary thought. The world is full of so many people with a variety of personalities, a reality that is both encouraging and overwhelming at the same time.

While it is possible to meet many people on a day-to-day basis, two compatible individuals meeting can still be incredibly difficult. The issue becomes even more difficult for people who are a little more on the shy side or simply do not have enough time to really put themselves out there to meet a lot of people.

The traditional settings where people go to seek out romance are actually the furthest thing from romantic. Clubs and bars attract large groups of people dressed in their best, but the ususal blaring music and flow of alcohol does not exactly facilitate people getting to know one another on a very deep level. Many people do not even like stepping foot in these establishments, prefering the calm and quiet of their own home, making it that much harder to meet someone and try and work towards a real relationship.

Luckily, the internet has imerged as another option for people who are interested in checking out exactly what kind of fish are in the sea of dating. There are countless dating sites out there, offering their help to the romantically challenged individuals of the world.

The world is full of people from all walks of life, meaning there is a countless variety of interests, beliefs, desires, and other defining characteristics. Fortunately, the online dating world has taken this diversity into account and there is a site for practically every specificity a person could think of. Hugely popular sites like eHarmony.com take on the burden of finding a person a match completely. Users do not have the chore or luxury of sifting through countless profiles in search of a compatible mate.

Based on the extensive personality test that a person must take when signing up, the site looks through its members to find potential matches. The test attempts to tap into every aspect of a person's being so that they can find them a mate who fits with them perfectly.

Other online dating sites like Match.com and Dating.com put a little more power into the hands of the individuals, allowing them to browse other people's profiles for individuals who peak their interest. They can send messages and chat with their objects of desire via the site.

For people who have a very specific idea of who they are looking for in terms of race, religion, sexual orientation, and even financial status, there are online dating sites tailored to all of these parameters. Finding the exact person that an individual wants is exciting, but it is important that users exercise some caution when navigating through these sites.

At their beginning there was most likely a higher probability that individuals using online dating sites were looking for a serious commitment, but as they grow in popularity an increasing amount of people are utilizing them as a means to entertain numerous dating prospects without any intention of developing a serious relationship.

This unfortunate reality just means that people should remain a little cautious. - 31368

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How To Win Ex Back Without Looking Crazy

By Justin Krawl

In every relationship the things you bump into could result in failure. This failure is not the conclusion of the world but a new start or new section of your life without him or her. Love is in the relationship but the love both of you had for each other wasn't so strong enough to get all the way through the struggles and problems. There are occurrences that this break up is just a biased verdict. When you want to win your ex back, you should take heed to the advice below.

Live on - You shouldn't be stagnant when you guys have broken up. You have to continue moving on with your life's daily activities. It's not the end of the age. There are still many things that you can familiarize yourself with around the world. Living and enjoying your life will also make the people who are concerned about you happy. Don't put in your mind that you are not loved but understand that your friends and family are there to constantly give you their support when you are lonely.

Don't beg: To beg your ex to restore the broken relationship is a weak move. You will simply get wounded when you do this. Begging can't be the basis for the relationship being restored; it has to be about love. Try not to get in touch with him or her as much as possible. Getting in touch will only hurt you more and more. Don't call, text, or make a meeting with him or her. Allow yourself time to mend down from the sorrow that you felt when you broke up.

Socialize: Going out with friends will be a wiser manner to put out of your mind the pain and just have fun. You are not restricted in making friends. Socialize with other people. Don't separate yourself for these can only make you undergo more pain. Socializing with new people will give you a message that you are not by yourself. Many people like your friends are just there prepared to make you smile over again.

Reflect. Reflect on the things or reason why you two have broken up. It might be because of the attitude, jealousy, insecurity, or other things. By reflecting these, you have time to think and change it for yourself and for the others. Changing it for a better good can make your burden lessen and might help you in your next relationship with somebody else or with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend. These will intend to revive your self esteem since the break up was made.

Be Yourself - Making believe that you're someone else will not be practical in the fast mending of the break up. You have to be who you are. You don't have to act strong or tough in front of your friends or family. It would be great to let yourself get into the mood from the pain that you feel. Cry if considered necessary. It's not an endless sin to cry. After letting loose of the pain that is held at your heart, you will feel a happiness feeling.

You must take note that not every relationship is going to be that perfect one. Several can be broken and very few will be tied eternally. It's to the destiny that the person in front of you, the one you love, is the person that is destined for you forever. When coming across this individual, it takes the direction of heaven. The person that is intended for you is just in the spot waiting for you to see or waiting for the instant you two might meet each other. Make yourself pleased and satisfied right now until that person taps at your heart. - 31368

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Wedding Gift Ideas To Win Hearts

By Owen Jones

The occasion of a wedding is a red letter day for anyone. Just being asked to one can cause real excitement. It is always a delight to see someone walk down the aisle with the promise of true love and life long joy. Picking out a wedding gift can be a lot of fun too. There are thousands of gifts that you can buy online or in retail stores.

Personalized gifts is a common trend in weddings presents. Bespoke gifts bring out your creativity because you can dictate the style, design and message you want to be printed on them. Products range from photo frames, mugs and clocks, among many others.

When buying gifts, always bear in mind your resources but be certain to get the look you want on the items you buy. Here are some gift ideas that would definitely be a hit:

Tapestry - It is lovely to remember the wedding day, but how best to do this? Personalize everyday belongings by printing the couple's picture on them. You can have it printed on pillows, blankets or bags.

Have them printed on a tapestry wall hanging and they can be kept as heirlooms. Different coloured cotton threads can make your pictures come to life just like the photograph itself.

Photo Frames - Keep your best pictures in exclusive photo frames. You can add romantic messages like 'lovers forever" or "ideal couple". Romantic lines from songs or poems are recommended too. You can choose from the different frames obtainable like natural wood, quality resin, or metal steel.

Private messages are mostly engraved by laser or cut out of wood. The couple would love putting there favorite wedding photos in such frames to remind them of the happiness of their special day.

T-shirts - Show your own personality and feelings by having them printed on comfortable tees. Many couples would love to demonstrate their love for each other on cute shirts. The most widespread of the slogans on these shirts is the letter "I" followed by a big red heart and then name of the groom or bride.

You could tell the world how you feel towards a person with such a bespoke tee. If you want to be more intimate, you could also print romantic messages on lingerie or underwear.

Accessories - Women love accessories. Bracelets are ideal items for personalization. You could choose sterling silver or even 9 carat - 22 carat gold. This depends on your finances, of course. But remember, it is the thought that counts.

Common themes that are put on bracelets are the date of your wedding or your anniversary or the couple's name. You can personalize rings and necklaces in the same way too.

Tankards - Tankards are very handy. If you are giving a gift to the groom, customizing his beer mug or wine glass would surely be appreciated. Choose a beer mug that is not embarrassing. Pewter or glass look nice and the personal message would stand out clearly.

Clocks - You could buy a wall clock or personal watches. Either way, you can be assured that the couple would find them very useful. Engraving one's name on a metal steel sports watch is an eye catcher too. A pocket watch would be equally valued.

Looking for wedding gifts can be very enjoyable. Personalizing your gifts would add a special touch to each present. No matter the value of the gift, remember that it is always the thought that matters most. - 31368

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Saving My Relationship - Will My Ex Get Back With Me?

By Lynn Huber

"I cannot say goodbye to you, no matter how I try."

Most couples who have devoted their time, invested their emotions and surrendered their desires usually share the same sentiment and have the above line to say. It is unfair to end a relationship immediately when troubles and challenges come. When you can still work it out, just try to work it out! Any relationship deserves a second chance, a third and even a fourth. You can even stop counting the chances, just nourish what you can work on and enjoy the present.

Most all relationships are "salvageable", "adjustable" and "workable" except, of course for those abusive ones. Cases of abuse relationships should end. There is no point in keeping an abusive relationship whether physical, emotional or verbal.

For relationships that you feel are still worthy to come back to, the point is this: It is just a matter of putting things in order and looking at the situation at an entirely different perspective. Do you still want him/her in your life? Are you willing to save the relationship? Is it worthwhile to save the relationship?

For couples who go their separate ways and as a deafening clamor for divorce strengthens even more, you might ask, "Is saving my relationship even possible?" The answer is a profound YES. There is no finality to a relationship when the two of you are still willing and able to change for the better and doing something to make things right.

Is it simple to let go when most relationships become too entangling? You share your private thoughts and feelings and the attachment is not just physical but also emotional. The toughest thing to do in a relationship is saying goodbye. As much as you possibly can, try not to say goodbye, just put an end to any trouble, squabbling or pain and go back to first base.

Although the process of saving a relationship is a daunting task, be willing to go through the action the same way you were more than willing to be involved with the person in the first place.

It is indeed possible to save a relationship. Even amidst breakdown in marriages and relationships gone haywire, there are still relationships that have prevailed, have flourished and have lasted through time. You can have that kind of relationship if you decide to have one! - 31368

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Are You Completely Lost On The Topic Of How To Love A Man ?

By Wendy Mason

Loneliness is all around us. Even though we find ourselves in a planet with billions of people, many of these people live alone. Others, who may live with others, still harbor extreme loneliness on a continual basis. In the case of woman, we find many searching for advice on:

a) How to make a man fall in love with me

b) How to make a man love you and you alone

c) How to love a man and all that he does

d) How to love a guy

e) How to make a man love you all the time

Men are different "animals". Most women realize this, right? How many women have tossed and turned late at night trying to figure men out, and how to show them that they truly care? Are gifts the best and only what that you can show that special guy that you truly do love them? In this article we will be going into this subject matter in great length. We will be exploring the various ways in which you can show him that you truly love him.

Yummy Food...

We have heard that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. This is true for many men. Now we won't go as far as to say that food is the way to make a man fall in love with you, but every man appreciates not only good food, but the thought that goes into the preparation of that special meal.

1) To get the ball rolling we will start with the first meal of the day, which is breakfast. How about making some heart-shaped pancakes? If he's not into pancakes you could do the same thing with toast. You could go one step further and even trim the butter that will accompany the meal into a heart shape. Heart-shaped butter on heart-shaped pancakes or toast. Yum.

2) Lunch is the next meal of the day. A lot of guys take their lunch from home, and this provides you with a great opportunity to show that you love him. Why not make him his special meal for lunch, and top it off with a note saying "I love you"? Will he ever be surprised...especially when he is looking to unpack that same ole sandwich and such...

3) The last meal of the day is the evening meal, at least for most people. Even though it's the last meal of the day, this doesn't mean that it has to be the least romantic. You could start things off with a dinner via candlelight. Play some romantic and soothing music in the background. That great little bottle of wine. Oh, and don't forget to make him that special meal that he often raves about.

4) Snacks are often eaten throughout the day, but a romantic snack is a very memorable invent. I wonder, did you have that special treat that you ate together when you first started dating? An ice cream cone and a walk along the lake perhaps? Nobody says that you can't recreate this experience again by "retracing your steps". Bring on the romantic snack!

Affection

People need to know that others care about them, and men are included in this group. Even though a guy may be the "strong, silent type", he can still get a tear in the eye when he sees a touching or romantic movie. If you are looking to show that guy that you love him, why not try:

1) A hug says so, so much. When he least expects it, why not give him one. Come up from behind, put your arms around him, and give him a great big bear hug. You could whisper "I love you" into his ear. No need to overdo this mind you...keep it special.

2) Listen to him. Can't get much more simple than that. For many women it so tempting to talk your man's ear off when he gets him. You want to vent and get out your frustrations. For a change, let him talk and you just listen. Don't change the subject to your day, but offer "I'm listening responses" like "I see" or "Hmmm". He will remember your care and concern for him...

3) Don't forget, some guys don't like to talk at all when they get home from work. The frustrations of their day are too near and too raw. They just want to sit back and "veg" for a while. Give them all the time that they need. They will probably start to talk your ear off once they unwind a bit, but give them that time to unwind.

4) Guys (at least quite a few of them) love a good relaxing massage. Are you gifted in giving a massage? Why not unleash this talent? Start off with the back, and run your fingers through his hair. Give him every opportunity to tell you what he likes and what he doesn't like. What a great way to unwind and prepare for the evening...

Activities With Romance

A lot of guys are very energetic and adventurous. They love to try out new things and test their manliness along the way. Here are some of the things that you can do to show that you love him:

1) Pure and simple, get out of that special "box" you have built around yourself and do something that you would not normally do. Do you hate football? Instead of complaining about the sport, why not join your man on the couch and try, I mean really try, to understand it. Instead of getting that "ugh" look on your face, why not ask them sincere questions. What's a first down? What is a quarterback? You know the type of questions we are talking about. He will be taken by surprise at first, but since he loves the game, he will love to explain the finer points to you. If he's not into football you can do a bit of research before hand to determine what questions to ask. He will remember it...trust me...

2) Does your man have chores that he needs to do? Many guys have something that they need to do around the house on a regular basis. Let's suppose this happens to be taking out the garbage every week. Why not surprise him by taking it out for him? You could say that since he is especially busy this week you thought that you would help him out. Be sure to indicate why...he may think you really enjoy it and you have found you have a new chore around the house.

3) How about a pillow fight? Did you leave this fun behind when you grew up? Who says that you have to? Many of us have had pillow fights back when we were kids and used to jump up and down on the bed. Time to renew this activity. Here's an idea. One night, when you are getting ready for bed, hall off and "wallop" that guy of yours. He'll be taken by surprise, but might get a great kick out of it. Be prepared. He might "wallop" you back, and you are off and running to an energetic little evening.

Compliments Are Great

We all love to get compliments. We like to hear that others like our clothes, our jewelry, our hair, our "whatever". Do you know how to compliment a guy? Here are a few ways:

1) Remember to say only nice things about your guy when you are out in public. Tell your friends how special he is, or how hard he works, or how much he cares for others. Word will eventually get back to that special guy of yours. He will be thrilled that all the things he is most proud of have not gone unnoticed by others.

2) Some guys are really into clothes, and they love to show off their "sense of style". If that special guy in your life loves clothes, be sure that you notice all his efforts, and doubly make sure that you tell him that you notice. He will appreciate the fact that others, especially you, notice.

3) What do you like? Is there something that your man does that you really appreciate? Does he do the dishes from time to time? Does he take the baby out for a walk when you are exhausted? Let him know that those little things he does are really appreciated.

4) You could always leave some little romantic notes in places that he will find them. Why not put one on the bathroom mirror for example? He will see it when he gets up in the morning. Why not put one on the steering wheel of his car? He will see it when he drives to work in the morning.

Buy Him Something

Gift giving is usually reserved for special occasions or holidays. Who says gifts can't be given at other times? How much more special are those gifts that are given at other times of the year. Let us get you started in your gift giving adventure. We have searched the web and have come up with some gift ideas that we think are very special and unique. How about giving that special man one of these gems:

Our Way Cool Pick #1 - Is that special man in your life into experiencing the outdoors? Perhaps he likes to fish or hike or hunt or camp? I bet that you worry about him when he is away, right? You realize that he might get lost or hurt or "whatever". What will you do then? Well here is a great gem of an item that we came across. We didn't even know that something like this existed. The "Satellite Messenger" is a small electronic device (lightweight at a mere 8oz) that will give him the ability to track his adventures and travels into the great outdoors. This device will help keep you up-to-date on his current location and his status as well. What does all this mean? It means that you will know where he is, and if he is in serious trouble as well. How much is this piece of mind worth? This little device can call for help, so it might even save his life one day. We're not the only ones who think this is a great gift idea. Backpacker Magazine gave it their 2008 Editor's Choice Award. Considering what "peace of mind" this little gadget will bring you, it might be just as much a gift for you as it is for him. Check out our blog for further details and ordering information.

Way Cool Pick #2 - So what do you get that special man who happens to have everything? Have you been getting him ties and sweaters because you can't think of anything else? Well, take a look at this gem of a gift idea!!! Think he would be interested in some Fighter Pilot Training? Imagine him being able to experience the adrenaline rush of air-to-air dogfight combat like his hero aces. He will be able to experience the ultimate "natural high" in one of the best military machines that mankind has ever developed. He doesn't need a pilot's license for this, and yet he can still experience all the thrills! He's not into airplanes you say? Well, this company we have found, Great American Days, has you covered. They have a whole list of exciting adventures and experiences, and surely there is one that will "tickle his fancy". How about a trip up to the edge of space? Does he want to drive a NASCAR? How about spending the day with the team who does underwater training for the Navy SEALs? You should definitely check out all that this company has to offer. Navigate over to our blog for ordering information.

Way Cool Pick #3 - Guys love their cars. They will often tell you of their favorite car. They might not be able to afford one of these cars mind you, but they would like to have one none-the-less. You might not be able to afford one of these cars either, but why not get him the next best thing. DieCast Car Models have been selling exact replicas of cars online since the year 2001. From Fords to Ferraris, from Toyotas to Lamborghinis, from "this car" to "that car", they seem to have all makes and models. These are not just mere models mind you, they are MODELS. If that special guy in your life is a lover of cars, don't miss the opportunity to see what this great company has to offer. Check out our blog for more details and ordering information.

In Conclusion

So what do you think of all that we have said? Does it make sense? Do you have enough examples of how to show that special guy that you love him? We hope so. If not, our blog has even more information than we can possibly relay in a single article. If you would like to see more wonderful presents for men, or more information on those items listed above, please navigate over to our blog at www.WonderfulPresentsForMen.com. For a selection of UNIQUE Christmas gifts, you can always check out: www.ExcellentChristmasList.com.

Have fun loving that guy... :) - 31368

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How to Attract Girls in A Flash

By Chase Chandler

Attracting girls may one of the topics that derive so much attention. Guys are so keen on being up to date with regards to the opposite sex, getting their attention in particular.

Some guys have it with them without any fuss, but others are still struggling to be noticed. How to attract girls is fairly easy. That is, if you do it right.

Girls may have the reputation for being difficult to deal with, but once you know them, you will be amazed how delightful and funny they can be. But first of all, you get to have the right approach.

Read on below and attract girls the quickest way possible.

While girls want attention, you should proceed carefully. You already know that this is their weakness, so you already have an edge. What you should not do however, is to give her too much attention than she needs. Like any other girl, she will also want some space for herself. Don't go overboard and make her uncomfortable with your approach.

Having a sense of humor will do well for you. Girls love guys who is fun to be with. If you are one, you already have something working for you. Girls will have fun being with you and they will enjoy laughing at your jokes. They will see you to be someone who can give them a good time. This of course gives you the chance for that second date.

Being romantic sets you apart from all other guys. This is perhaps the most important thing to get the girl attracted to you. Every girl wants to be swept off her feet by a man who knows how to make her feel special. As with every approach, don't overdo it, otherwise, it will be suffocating on her side. So show her romantic side and just give her what she needs at that time.

Being creative can capture her heart. If you know poetry, write poems for her. If you can draw, paint a picture of her. If you can sing, why not sing for her? Show her what you can do and how you can make her feel if she has a relationship with you.

Establish eye contact when you talk with her. Be confident when interacting with her. Looking her in the eye will assure her of your sincerity and confidence.

Girls are attracted to confident guys--no question about that. But be the real you and don't pretend to be someone you are not.

Attracting girls is all about how you carry and present yourself. Your personality and aura play essential roles, other than your looks. Bear in mind that you do not have to be overly good looking to attract a girl.

Think positive and be confident of who you are--you will find that girls will sense this and will be attracted to you. - 31368

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Romantic Engagement Proposal Ideas

By Charlie Jackson

Before I give you some engagement proposal ideas, you need to make sure that you don't simply copy somebody else's ideas!

Any idea you use, you need to take some of your shared experiences in order to make the proposal personal to the two of you!

I hope these engagement proposal ideas give you some inspiration:

1. Mail her a photo of you on one knee with a special love poem. Wait outside her house for the post to arrive and when you hear her scream, knock on the door and propose in person.

2. Say you're away on business for 2 weeks with a special anniversary in the middle. Arrange with her friend to meet each other at a nice restaurant on the anniversary. Instead of her friend, it will be you...Propose!

3. Go on a night time hot-air balloon ride over some mountains or beautiful scenery. Under the stars and over champagne you can propose to her.

4. Go building sand castles, or digging for shells on the beach. You can "stumble" upon an old bottle with a love poem inside. Read her the poem, it will become clear it is about her and then propose.

5. You could go for a nice meal and ask her to marry you. When she says "yes" you can start the wedding immediately! Make sure you plan it all out and that you're certain she'll say yes!

6. Get her 3 roses and say that they symbolize the past, present and future. Have the ring attached to the future!

7. Arrange for a spa day followed by a photo shoot. While the photos are being taken, get down on one knee and propose! You will have the pictures forever! After, go for a nice meal followed by a 5 star hotel! - 31368

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Win Back Lost Love From Long Ago

By Cheryl Pierce

When memories of your previous love come back, did you ever ask, "What if"? It may not have worked in the past and it just ended because you either decided to let go or perhaps he wanted to be free from commitment. Whatever the cause of the split-up, there are days that you can't help looking back, knowing afterall that it was the most memorable time. Longing for those good times, you decide to win back lost love.

One of the foremost concerns that you need to deal with is your love life at present. Normally, there may have hurts in the past that you do not want to rake in to recur in your present status. It is too tiring to go through the same misdemeanors and end up having to face it again with your new love. Do something about it. One mistake is enough. It should remain in the past, and should not be dragged to the present. Keep the fire burning now and never give up working.

Second, you need to take note that your your ex may have carried on. Do not be misled to think that both of you still share the same sentiments. It might be the other way around. In order to win back a lost love, you should still share the same feelings for each other. Remember, it takes two. If the other one has found someone else, let them be and move on, too. It is not worth it when you win back lost love and hurt someone along the way.

Always be aware that to win back a lost love can also mean, trying to cope with the possibility of having someone who has changed through the course of time. Of course, just hope that it is for the better and not for the worst. People change and it is a fact, so consider this.

Take it one pace at a time. Do not be too aggressive. Social networking sites like Facebook are accessible these days. You can add that special person as a friend and wait for a confirmation. To win back lost love is a challenge and it is up to you to initiate. Get to know the person again. Try to start from scratch. Both of you have led separate lives and have changed in one way or the other. Be subtle in your approach and never divulge your intention to win back lost love. Just keep the communication lines open and start from there.

The last thing that you need to do is face and live the present. Do not dig the past. Leave behind the recollection, whether good or bad. Learn from the past and build-up in strengthening the present. Win back a lost love from long ago by being what you are in the present " more loving and not forever stuck in the heartaches of the past. - 31368

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