There is nothing as stressful and overwhelming as obligate to meet the parents of your fiance for the earliest time. But, if you know how to handle this, you will see that can be a real interesting experience.
It comes a day in your life when you picture out that your liaison with your girlfriend is turning serious and she has to take you to meet her parents and family. This is a big step in your correlation and it is very imperative to make a good reaction from the beginning, if you want that they consent to meet their girl further.
There are several occasions in which you can meet her parents, such as a long weekend or anniversary, picking her up for a date, or just a dinner in
family prepared special for the meeting. No worry in which conditions you meet, for impressing her parents you must be prepared.
First of all, dress to impress. You must be presentable at your meeting, that's why the best to wear is probably a suit. Your performance] will be evaluated by the earliest impact you make in their eyes.
Before the big meeting make sure to find out from your girlfriend all the facts about her family, so you will know what to talk with them. Ask where her parents work, about their character if they are very serious or they have mood of humor, and if they like humorous people or much retained, to know how to act with them. It is important to know some details, to not talk about to her grandparents if you don't know if they are still living.
Also demanding questions about her family will show her that you really care, that you are interested, and ready to do all the sacrifices that are necessary to make their parents like you. Remember that in the first meeting you must make sure that they perceive your good manners, to prove her parents that you merit to be with their daughter.
If the meeting takes place at their home, don't forget to take along a gift, such as flowers, a box of chocolate or a bottle of wine to show that you are well-mannered. Be confident, give her dad a firm handshake, and as a sign of respect call him Sir.
You have to make a good talk, but also be prepared for many questions towards your family. Don't panic, relax and look in their eyes and answer as nicely as you can. Be prepared to response at the question about what do you want to do in the upcoming. Speak about your job, family, sporting, but don't take along any debate about earnings, politics or particular questions. Asking questions about their family will show your attention about them, as far as your aim is to get along with both partners, to get on their good sides.
Keep a smiled face to show you are friendly; be personable, polite and courteous. Flatters her mum's look or clothing and compliment her cooking by finishing your plate. You may offer your help to clean up the dishes; this will certainly influence her mother.
Be yourself, to see from the beginning how you are, and don't show too much friendliness towards your fiance in their presence, one kiss is adequate, to not think her parents that you are over reacting.
Before you leave tell her parents that it was a enjoyment meeting them and they have a very special daughter.
You will see that it will be harder with her daddy which wouldn't accept easy that now it is another man in his daughter life except him, but if you conquered her mom you will see that she will be the one which will invite you for dinner and will guard you in front of her husband if she really respect you.
So, meeting her parents can't be so bad, and if you really success with this meeting it will base a wonderful friendship between you, which will have a big confident sense on your relationship. - 31368
It comes a day in your life when you picture out that your liaison with your girlfriend is turning serious and she has to take you to meet her parents and family. This is a big step in your correlation and it is very imperative to make a good reaction from the beginning, if you want that they consent to meet their girl further.
There are several occasions in which you can meet her parents, such as a long weekend or anniversary, picking her up for a date, or just a dinner in
family prepared special for the meeting. No worry in which conditions you meet, for impressing her parents you must be prepared.
First of all, dress to impress. You must be presentable at your meeting, that's why the best to wear is probably a suit. Your performance] will be evaluated by the earliest impact you make in their eyes.
Before the big meeting make sure to find out from your girlfriend all the facts about her family, so you will know what to talk with them. Ask where her parents work, about their character if they are very serious or they have mood of humor, and if they like humorous people or much retained, to know how to act with them. It is important to know some details, to not talk about to her grandparents if you don't know if they are still living.
Also demanding questions about her family will show her that you really care, that you are interested, and ready to do all the sacrifices that are necessary to make their parents like you. Remember that in the first meeting you must make sure that they perceive your good manners, to prove her parents that you merit to be with their daughter.
If the meeting takes place at their home, don't forget to take along a gift, such as flowers, a box of chocolate or a bottle of wine to show that you are well-mannered. Be confident, give her dad a firm handshake, and as a sign of respect call him Sir.
You have to make a good talk, but also be prepared for many questions towards your family. Don't panic, relax and look in their eyes and answer as nicely as you can. Be prepared to response at the question about what do you want to do in the upcoming. Speak about your job, family, sporting, but don't take along any debate about earnings, politics or particular questions. Asking questions about their family will show your attention about them, as far as your aim is to get along with both partners, to get on their good sides.
Keep a smiled face to show you are friendly; be personable, polite and courteous. Flatters her mum's look or clothing and compliment her cooking by finishing your plate. You may offer your help to clean up the dishes; this will certainly influence her mother.
Be yourself, to see from the beginning how you are, and don't show too much friendliness towards your fiance in their presence, one kiss is adequate, to not think her parents that you are over reacting.
Before you leave tell her parents that it was a enjoyment meeting them and they have a very special daughter.
You will see that it will be harder with her daddy which wouldn't accept easy that now it is another man in his daughter life except him, but if you conquered her mom you will see that she will be the one which will invite you for dinner and will guard you in front of her husband if she really respect you.
So, meeting her parents can't be so bad, and if you really success with this meeting it will base a wonderful friendship between you, which will have a big confident sense on your relationship. - 31368
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