The first kiss in any relationship can be a time of high anxiety. It is a stumbling block for many guys, particularly those who have been out of the dating scene for a long time.
You have good reason to be anxious about your first kiss. The very first kiss is for many women, a means of assessing a man's compatibility.
The preliminaries to the kiss is as important as the execution of the kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, both romantic and chemical that women pick up on.
It's a mistake to think of this all important act as just some ritual that you have to get out of the way. Three tips on getting it right.
1.) You won't make a great impression if you ask her for permission.
Of course you can't just start kissing because you're feeling aroused. You need to know when the moment is right. When there is a romantic tension and she shows signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.
Asking her for her permission lessens the romantic impact of that first kiss. It can cause you to seem weak. Women expect to be swept off their feet by a strong confident man who takes charge. Now is the time, take charge of the moment.
2.) Recognize the all important signals of attraction.
Does she find ways of touching you such as wanting to read your palm? Maybe she will trip and hold on to you for support. Has she brushed her hand across yours?
Her eye contact with you is also important. Is she stealing glances at you? Is there plenty of lengthy eye contact?
Do her eyes roam over your face? Her eyes may linger over your lips. Does she lean in to be closer to you?
Is she slightly nervous? Perhaps she fixes or plays with her hair in your presence. Are her pupils dilated?
3.) Initiate the kiss slowly, as if in slow motion.
Lean in closer, take her hand, gaze at her lips, her mouth. If there is no resistance, gently kiss her. A variation to this is to gently play with her hair or cradle her face with your hands before you kiss. - 31368
You have good reason to be anxious about your first kiss. The very first kiss is for many women, a means of assessing a man's compatibility.
The preliminaries to the kiss is as important as the execution of the kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, both romantic and chemical that women pick up on.
It's a mistake to think of this all important act as just some ritual that you have to get out of the way. Three tips on getting it right.
1.) You won't make a great impression if you ask her for permission.
Of course you can't just start kissing because you're feeling aroused. You need to know when the moment is right. When there is a romantic tension and she shows signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.
Asking her for her permission lessens the romantic impact of that first kiss. It can cause you to seem weak. Women expect to be swept off their feet by a strong confident man who takes charge. Now is the time, take charge of the moment.
2.) Recognize the all important signals of attraction.
Does she find ways of touching you such as wanting to read your palm? Maybe she will trip and hold on to you for support. Has she brushed her hand across yours?
Her eye contact with you is also important. Is she stealing glances at you? Is there plenty of lengthy eye contact?
Do her eyes roam over your face? Her eyes may linger over your lips. Does she lean in to be closer to you?
Is she slightly nervous? Perhaps she fixes or plays with her hair in your presence. Are her pupils dilated?
3.) Initiate the kiss slowly, as if in slow motion.
Lean in closer, take her hand, gaze at her lips, her mouth. If there is no resistance, gently kiss her. A variation to this is to gently play with her hair or cradle her face with your hands before you kiss. - 31368
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