If you want to ask out a girl, but don't know how, this article is for you. I'll outline a simple process that will make it easy, and make her chances of saying yes very high. When done correctly, you will get more yes answers than no answers with this powerful method.
The first step is to make sure you know her name, and she knows yours. That means you have to see her at least a couple times before you ask her out. If you ask out a random stranger in the coffee shop, you won't have as much luck as with this powerful sure thing method.
Second, you need to find out some of her interests. Find out what she likes to do in her spare time. This can be anything from dog walking to novel reading in coffee shops. Anything that she likes is fine.
Now that you got that part squared away, it's time to structure the offer. Choose an event, or create an event, that is based on one of her interests. Anything that is remotely connected to something she is interested in is fine. This will dramatically improve your chances.
Now you've got the event planned out, you need to plan the event as if you are going to do it by yourself. That will take the pressure off her when you ask her. So whatever it is, going to an art museum, or visiting a cat farm, plan on going there on your own. Actually write it down in your calendar.
Now the question. Instead of asking for her permission to spend time with her, like most guys do, tell her what you are planning on doing, and ask her if she'd like to go with you. She won't feel any pressure, and will almost always say yes (unless she is busy.) You'll be amazed how easily this works.
Once you try this a few times, your self-confidence will skyrocket, making you more attractive than ever to girls. They will start asking you out. - 31368
The first step is to make sure you know her name, and she knows yours. That means you have to see her at least a couple times before you ask her out. If you ask out a random stranger in the coffee shop, you won't have as much luck as with this powerful sure thing method.
Second, you need to find out some of her interests. Find out what she likes to do in her spare time. This can be anything from dog walking to novel reading in coffee shops. Anything that she likes is fine.
Now that you got that part squared away, it's time to structure the offer. Choose an event, or create an event, that is based on one of her interests. Anything that is remotely connected to something she is interested in is fine. This will dramatically improve your chances.
Now you've got the event planned out, you need to plan the event as if you are going to do it by yourself. That will take the pressure off her when you ask her. So whatever it is, going to an art museum, or visiting a cat farm, plan on going there on your own. Actually write it down in your calendar.
Now the question. Instead of asking for her permission to spend time with her, like most guys do, tell her what you are planning on doing, and ask her if she'd like to go with you. She won't feel any pressure, and will almost always say yes (unless she is busy.) You'll be amazed how easily this works.
Once you try this a few times, your self-confidence will skyrocket, making you more attractive than ever to girls. They will start asking you out. - 31368
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