Have you recently broken up with your girlfriend? If so, you might be experiencing some difficult emotions. The first thing you need to do is control your feelings, and take some time off from your ex. Dont call her or text message.
Really think about your relationship during the first couple of days apart. If you decide that you truly do want your ex girlfriend back, then you need to come up with an effective strategy. One of the most crucial aspects of your strategy must be to create a bonding experience between you and your ex.
You need a strong, emotionally charged up date to create a new bond. Lets think about an example of an emotionally charged up experience.
You are at the convenience store picking up some milk, when three men come into the store, and they are armed. They demand that everyone hit the floor. The woman next to you in line freezes, and wont move. Just as one of the gunmen begins to notice the woman, you reach up, grab her and pull her down.
You squeeze her hand, look her in the eye, and nod. She nods back, and squeezes your hand back. You whisper, its going to be ok. The robbers complete the crime and leave the store. The woman thanks you with genuine affection, and says I will never forget you.
And she wont. You wont forget her either. Thats because the experience was highly emotional and charged up. You need to create an emotionally charged up experience between you and your ex girlfriend that fosters a new bond in your relationship.
As soon as your girl agrees to go out on a date with you again, you need to start planning! Use you imagination to set up a date she will never forget!
No dinner and a movie. Its boring. Go skydiving, or see a crazy concert. Learn a new sport together. Try a climbing wall. - 31368
Really think about your relationship during the first couple of days apart. If you decide that you truly do want your ex girlfriend back, then you need to come up with an effective strategy. One of the most crucial aspects of your strategy must be to create a bonding experience between you and your ex.
You need a strong, emotionally charged up date to create a new bond. Lets think about an example of an emotionally charged up experience.
You are at the convenience store picking up some milk, when three men come into the store, and they are armed. They demand that everyone hit the floor. The woman next to you in line freezes, and wont move. Just as one of the gunmen begins to notice the woman, you reach up, grab her and pull her down.
You squeeze her hand, look her in the eye, and nod. She nods back, and squeezes your hand back. You whisper, its going to be ok. The robbers complete the crime and leave the store. The woman thanks you with genuine affection, and says I will never forget you.
And she wont. You wont forget her either. Thats because the experience was highly emotional and charged up. You need to create an emotionally charged up experience between you and your ex girlfriend that fosters a new bond in your relationship.
As soon as your girl agrees to go out on a date with you again, you need to start planning! Use you imagination to set up a date she will never forget!
No dinner and a movie. Its boring. Go skydiving, or see a crazy concert. Learn a new sport together. Try a climbing wall. - 31368
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If you need to get your ex girlfriend back, then you need to get creative and you need to get romantic! Think outside the box and set up a amazing date that she will always remember. Woo her and win her back for good!
