The gay dating world can be hard to deal with. All you want to do is have fun and be with someone you enjoy spending time with and you get a bunch of guys who just want to score and move on (which is fun occasionally, but not always what we want).
Then you have the guys who are only experimenting and immediately deny the fact that they're gay.
Here's how to create a real gay relationship...
Here are my top tips for healthy gay dating.
He's Gotta Be Gay - If he isn't gay, you're going down a treacherous road. Talk about how long he's been gay. Ask him when he came out. Find out what his parents thought about it. Talk about your relationships with men and find out how many he's had. If he isn't gay it should show when you start talking about real gay issues.
Work Out - How you look physically will determine to some extent how lucky you are at attracting men. A well chiseled physique will have more boys coming after you. Of course there are some great guys who care less about looks, but you might as well attract them all!
Don't Give It Up Easily - Be different and make him work for it. Men always want to jump into bed quickly. If you're looking for a serious relationship, spend a few dates making out and holding hands before you go any further. Let the attraction build and talk about your futures together before jumping into bed. It'll weed out the guys who are only looking for a quick fling.
Meet More People - Go to more gay activities. Go clubbing, attend parties at gay friend's houses. Be social and get to know the people you meet. If you meet more available guys, your chances for finding the perfect guy is going to be a lot higher than if you stay home lonely.
Go Online - There are more tools now for gay men to connect than ever before. If you know which ones to use, you can have instant luck with gay dating services. Some are scams, so you'll want to find people who have successfully used them and then you'll get lucky to. If you have an iphone, you can even find gay guys within miles of where you're at 24/7.
Think about things practically. If you're looking for quick sex, you're not as likely to develop a serious relationship. We all want a quick release, but we have a hard time respecting the people who give it up easily. A little patience can give you a lot more happiness.
It's easier now than ever to meet hot men quickly with modern technology. A few random hookups can be a lot of fun and if you want to get lucky tonight, you actually can. Use it wisely and you'll never be lonely when you don't want to be. - 31368
Then you have the guys who are only experimenting and immediately deny the fact that they're gay.
Here's how to create a real gay relationship...
Here are my top tips for healthy gay dating.
He's Gotta Be Gay - If he isn't gay, you're going down a treacherous road. Talk about how long he's been gay. Ask him when he came out. Find out what his parents thought about it. Talk about your relationships with men and find out how many he's had. If he isn't gay it should show when you start talking about real gay issues.
Work Out - How you look physically will determine to some extent how lucky you are at attracting men. A well chiseled physique will have more boys coming after you. Of course there are some great guys who care less about looks, but you might as well attract them all!
Don't Give It Up Easily - Be different and make him work for it. Men always want to jump into bed quickly. If you're looking for a serious relationship, spend a few dates making out and holding hands before you go any further. Let the attraction build and talk about your futures together before jumping into bed. It'll weed out the guys who are only looking for a quick fling.
Meet More People - Go to more gay activities. Go clubbing, attend parties at gay friend's houses. Be social and get to know the people you meet. If you meet more available guys, your chances for finding the perfect guy is going to be a lot higher than if you stay home lonely.
Go Online - There are more tools now for gay men to connect than ever before. If you know which ones to use, you can have instant luck with gay dating services. Some are scams, so you'll want to find people who have successfully used them and then you'll get lucky to. If you have an iphone, you can even find gay guys within miles of where you're at 24/7.
Think about things practically. If you're looking for quick sex, you're not as likely to develop a serious relationship. We all want a quick release, but we have a hard time respecting the people who give it up easily. A little patience can give you a lot more happiness.
It's easier now than ever to meet hot men quickly with modern technology. A few random hookups can be a lot of fun and if you want to get lucky tonight, you actually can. Use it wisely and you'll never be lonely when you don't want to be. - 31368
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