In a new relationship, your first kiss is often a very anxious time. It's an awkward moment for most men, especially those who haven't dated in a while.
There is good reason to feel anxious about your first kiss. For a lot of women, the first kiss is a means of assessing a man's compatibility.
The preliminaries to the kiss is as important as the execution of the kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, both romantic and chemical that women pick up on.
Don't think that the first kiss is merely something to get out of the way. The following are three tips on doing it the right way.
1.) Don't ask for her permission.
This doesn't mean that you can just grab her and start kissing because you're feeling aroused. Instead you must gauge when the moment is right. If there is sexual tension between both of you and she is showing signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.
Asking her for her permission diminishes the chemistry or "spark" of the kiss. It can cause you to appear indecisive and weak. Women expect to be swept off their feet by a confident and strong man. Now is the time, you must take charge of this moment.
2.) Know her signs of attraction.
Does she find ways of touching you such as wanting to read your palm? Maybe she will trip and hold on to you for support. Has she brushed her hand across yours?
Her eye contact with you is also important. Is she stealing glances at you? Is there plenty of lengthy eye contact?
Do her eyes roam over your face? Her eyes may linger over your lips. Does she lean in to be closer to you?
Maybe she's a little bit nervous? She may even fix or adjust her hair when she senses your attention. Are the pupils in her eyes dilated?
3.) Begin the kiss very slowly.
Lean in closer, take her hand, look into her eyes and then her lips and mouth. If there is no resistance, kiss her. A variation to this is to gently play with her hair or cup her face in your hands before kissing. - 31368
There is good reason to feel anxious about your first kiss. For a lot of women, the first kiss is a means of assessing a man's compatibility.
The preliminaries to the kiss is as important as the execution of the kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, both romantic and chemical that women pick up on.
Don't think that the first kiss is merely something to get out of the way. The following are three tips on doing it the right way.
1.) Don't ask for her permission.
This doesn't mean that you can just grab her and start kissing because you're feeling aroused. Instead you must gauge when the moment is right. If there is sexual tension between both of you and she is showing signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.
Asking her for her permission diminishes the chemistry or "spark" of the kiss. It can cause you to appear indecisive and weak. Women expect to be swept off their feet by a confident and strong man. Now is the time, you must take charge of this moment.
2.) Know her signs of attraction.
Does she find ways of touching you such as wanting to read your palm? Maybe she will trip and hold on to you for support. Has she brushed her hand across yours?
Her eye contact with you is also important. Is she stealing glances at you? Is there plenty of lengthy eye contact?
Do her eyes roam over your face? Her eyes may linger over your lips. Does she lean in to be closer to you?
Maybe she's a little bit nervous? She may even fix or adjust her hair when she senses your attention. Are the pupils in her eyes dilated?
3.) Begin the kiss very slowly.
Lean in closer, take her hand, look into her eyes and then her lips and mouth. If there is no resistance, kiss her. A variation to this is to gently play with her hair or cup her face in your hands before kissing. - 31368
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