"I cannot say goodbye to you, no matter how I try."
Most couples who have devoted their time, invested their emotions and surrendered their desires usually share the same sentiment and have the above line to say. It is unfair to end a relationship immediately when troubles and challenges come. When you can still work it out, just try to work it out! Any relationship deserves a second chance, a third and even a fourth. You can even stop counting the chances, just nourish what you can work on and enjoy the present.
Most all relationships are "salvageable", "adjustable" and "workable" except, of course for those abusive ones. Cases of abuse relationships should end. There is no point in keeping an abusive relationship whether physical, emotional or verbal.
For relationships that you feel are still worthy to come back to, the point is this: It is just a matter of putting things in order and looking at the situation at an entirely different perspective. Do you still want him/her in your life? Are you willing to save the relationship? Is it worthwhile to save the relationship?
For couples who go their separate ways and as a deafening clamor for divorce strengthens even more, you might ask, "Is saving my relationship even possible?" The answer is a profound YES. There is no finality to a relationship when the two of you are still willing and able to change for the better and doing something to make things right.
Is it simple to let go when most relationships become too entangling? You share your private thoughts and feelings and the attachment is not just physical but also emotional. The toughest thing to do in a relationship is saying goodbye. As much as you possibly can, try not to say goodbye, just put an end to any trouble, squabbling or pain and go back to first base.
Although the process of saving a relationship is a daunting task, be willing to go through the action the same way you were more than willing to be involved with the person in the first place.
It is indeed possible to save a relationship. Even amidst breakdown in marriages and relationships gone haywire, there are still relationships that have prevailed, have flourished and have lasted through time. You can have that kind of relationship if you decide to have one! - 31368
Most couples who have devoted their time, invested their emotions and surrendered their desires usually share the same sentiment and have the above line to say. It is unfair to end a relationship immediately when troubles and challenges come. When you can still work it out, just try to work it out! Any relationship deserves a second chance, a third and even a fourth. You can even stop counting the chances, just nourish what you can work on and enjoy the present.
Most all relationships are "salvageable", "adjustable" and "workable" except, of course for those abusive ones. Cases of abuse relationships should end. There is no point in keeping an abusive relationship whether physical, emotional or verbal.
For relationships that you feel are still worthy to come back to, the point is this: It is just a matter of putting things in order and looking at the situation at an entirely different perspective. Do you still want him/her in your life? Are you willing to save the relationship? Is it worthwhile to save the relationship?
For couples who go their separate ways and as a deafening clamor for divorce strengthens even more, you might ask, "Is saving my relationship even possible?" The answer is a profound YES. There is no finality to a relationship when the two of you are still willing and able to change for the better and doing something to make things right.
Is it simple to let go when most relationships become too entangling? You share your private thoughts and feelings and the attachment is not just physical but also emotional. The toughest thing to do in a relationship is saying goodbye. As much as you possibly can, try not to say goodbye, just put an end to any trouble, squabbling or pain and go back to first base.
Although the process of saving a relationship is a daunting task, be willing to go through the action the same way you were more than willing to be involved with the person in the first place.
It is indeed possible to save a relationship. Even amidst breakdown in marriages and relationships gone haywire, there are still relationships that have prevailed, have flourished and have lasted through time. You can have that kind of relationship if you decide to have one! - 31368
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