Make Your Wife Pay More Attention To You

By Jemal Jelil

The best way of making love to your wife so she'll adore you and get enjoyment out of making you happy is simple, make it about her.

Make the time to be sure that it's an exciting event for her.

Know when she needs to be cuddled and make sure you use that opportunity very well.

If she desires a kind present, give her one.

No, not just an exercise, man! Here's a pretty easy one. If she likes flowers and from experience, I know each girl does get her flowers! But if you want to make it really special: discover what flowers she like, what shades she prefer.

Exert an effort in selecting your gift. Ask for the florist's help if you need to. Do this with more care and great thoughts. It doesn't matter if you feel gay looking at flowers. If you really love your wife then you can get away with it.

Praise her when she wants it and like before, give her some attention. Be sincere.

Do something she needs to be done, do it without waiting for her to tell you. Cook for her when she's not expecting it. She'll definitely feel special.

Make time to communicate with her.

Different women have slightly different needs (although they have many similarities), so know about your wife's distinct tastes.

And that's the formula to a blissful marriage, pay attention, man!

Now you know what you must do, it's time to know what you must avoid.

1) Hurl personal criticisms at her, by talking about things like, "Why are you always such a (fill in the blank)?!"

2) Get all defensive when she says matters you dispute with. Just pay attention to what she is saying and try to appreciate where she's coming from.

3) Be impertinent with her, by rolling your eyes when she's in disagreement with you. Avoid insulting, and stuff like that.

4) Block her out, particularly when emotions are intense. There's probably nothing that distances her from you more than this. When you say to yourself, "I'm not dealing with this crap!" and you wish you could leave from her or just ignore her, exert effort to be present with her, even if you find it damn trying.

Otherwise, you'll alienate your wife, and she might end up finding that connection with some other guy. I hate saying that when she really wanted it with you.

A cheating wife is someone that nobody can ever stand. Cheating is something that goes against the moral fiber.

This article is for fellow husbands and you only have power over your own self. So take charge of your life. Your wife will naturally follow you or you might decide she's not the best partner for you.

Nevertheless, if you apply the advice I've given you here, you'll definitely find yourself in a happy marriage and not busied learning how to discover your wife being unfaithful, and studying stuff like unfaithful cheating wife signs. - 31368

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