Going Dutch Style

By Becky Jones

Going Dutch means that both daters pay for themselves when they go out on a date. This system of dating is frequently the best kind, especially when both parties are new to each other, self-sufficient, or just good friends, because then neither person ends up feeling grateful to the other. Many people like to go Dutch because they are not comfortable with someone else paying for them. This is common with women who are broadminded or liberated in their philosophy or who just don't like to be a financial millstone to anyone.

Therefore, it is also widespread if finances are low for both parties. Both people will divide the costs of dinner and any other activities selected to do on the date. Another facet of Dating Dutch Style is that the daters might also decide to meet up at the locality by separate cab or drive themselves so that the other person is not responsible for their transportation.

Dating Dutch Style can create an enormously casual ambiance, which many people are pleased with when a liaison is new. After all, in these circumstances no one is incumbent on anyone and each can come or go as they please if the date turns disagreeable.

Some people just are not at ease with someone else paying for anything for them until they get to know them better. In addition, they don?t like to feel as if they owe them for anything later.

Going Dutch allows your date to go out in a comfortable manner without the feeling of ?owing? anyone anything. In addition, many women realize the costs related with dating and don?t believe it is fair that the man should pay for everything, particularly if they go to an expensive restaurant and do something even more posh later.

Going Dutch is common for people who are not comfortable with someone else spending money on them. There are many generous and independent women who are very proud and who prefer to pay their own way too. This generates a comfortable mood because no one feels like they owe anyone for anything later on. - 31368

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