There are many romance tips which ask you to do gimmicky things. Romantic gimmicks work well but there's another approach that focuses on improving how you interact with your partner. This enhancement is known as charm.
If you're the matter of fact, gruff type of individual and you start to treat your partner with charm, you're going to see big improvements in your love life. Contrast is very powerful when it comes to getting the attention of your woman. She will be intrigued and turned on by the new you.
If you aren't blessed with the gift of charm, there's still hope because it's something that can be learned. Three tips:
1.) Be alert to whatever makes her smile or laugh.
Even if you're familiar with her ways, there will always be subtle things that you should look for. There could also be things happening on a day to day basis that she may be feeling good about.
Listen and observe these things. If you say or do anything that makes her happy, keep doing it.
Keep mental notes of these things for future use. She'll be immensely pleased when even the smallest things about her don't escape you.
2.) Cultivate a great sense of humor.
Another approach to making her feel good is being funny. It doesn't have to be slap-stick, just look for the lighter side of life. Being playful can be very effective.
Be cautious about triggering any of her vulnerabilities or insecurities. Humor is a very spontaneous thing that doesn't allow much time to reflect on the pros and cons of the humorous remark.
3.) Show exuberance toward living your life.
Always find the good in people and the world around you. Enjoy every occasion. Put your whole heart into the things that you do. - 31368
If you're the matter of fact, gruff type of individual and you start to treat your partner with charm, you're going to see big improvements in your love life. Contrast is very powerful when it comes to getting the attention of your woman. She will be intrigued and turned on by the new you.
If you aren't blessed with the gift of charm, there's still hope because it's something that can be learned. Three tips:
1.) Be alert to whatever makes her smile or laugh.
Even if you're familiar with her ways, there will always be subtle things that you should look for. There could also be things happening on a day to day basis that she may be feeling good about.
Listen and observe these things. If you say or do anything that makes her happy, keep doing it.
Keep mental notes of these things for future use. She'll be immensely pleased when even the smallest things about her don't escape you.
2.) Cultivate a great sense of humor.
Another approach to making her feel good is being funny. It doesn't have to be slap-stick, just look for the lighter side of life. Being playful can be very effective.
Be cautious about triggering any of her vulnerabilities or insecurities. Humor is a very spontaneous thing that doesn't allow much time to reflect on the pros and cons of the humorous remark.
3.) Show exuberance toward living your life.
Always find the good in people and the world around you. Enjoy every occasion. Put your whole heart into the things that you do. - 31368
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