Men can be so much trouble for a woman. Of course, much of this frustration comes from the fact that us men and women just don't have a very good understanding of each other. This conflict becomes most apparent after a break up, where a woman is often left feeling very hurt and confused. If you're sick of being lonely and feel like you want your ex boyfriend back, listen up because I'm going to give you some advice.
First of all, you want to make sure that your ex boyfriend is actually worth your effort. Take a few minutes, and really think about that if you have to. If you imagine your future without your ex boyfriend, does it seem better, or worse?
You know you found a really good guy when you can't see anyone but him. If he's someone you truly want in your life and you you feel that you really know him and you can make him happier than some other woman can, then you may had something worth saving.
Why did your boyfriend get together with you in the first place? It was because he felt strong emotions around you and you felt strong emotions around him! If you're anything like most couples, you found that you just couldn't spend much time apart without at least thinking of each other. This is often referred to as "chemistry", a "spark", a "flame", or indeed, "love."
Sadly, if you've broken up and he doesn't seem to be trying as hard as you are to get back together, then the passion he once had for you has become weak.
My point is that if you really want your boyfriend back, then you have to begin to focus on rebuilding that lost spark of attraction. You can't convince your ex to come back to you; he left you for emotional reasons. Recharging his feelings for you is the key. - 31368
First of all, you want to make sure that your ex boyfriend is actually worth your effort. Take a few minutes, and really think about that if you have to. If you imagine your future without your ex boyfriend, does it seem better, or worse?
You know you found a really good guy when you can't see anyone but him. If he's someone you truly want in your life and you you feel that you really know him and you can make him happier than some other woman can, then you may had something worth saving.
Why did your boyfriend get together with you in the first place? It was because he felt strong emotions around you and you felt strong emotions around him! If you're anything like most couples, you found that you just couldn't spend much time apart without at least thinking of each other. This is often referred to as "chemistry", a "spark", a "flame", or indeed, "love."
Sadly, if you've broken up and he doesn't seem to be trying as hard as you are to get back together, then the passion he once had for you has become weak.
My point is that if you really want your boyfriend back, then you have to begin to focus on rebuilding that lost spark of attraction. You can't convince your ex to come back to you; he left you for emotional reasons. Recharging his feelings for you is the key. - 31368
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