Quick Guide to Picking Up Women

By Chase Chandler

If youre having a little problem with picking up women, chances are your efforts are not enough. For some, having a lot of guts can really get you started.

Just how do you get yourself those guts? One can learn a few things that can make a whole lot of difference in the quest of being successful with women.

When you approach a woman, always establish eye to eye contact first. This will make her more comfortable than when you tend to surprise her when you suddenly appear right by her side.

Keep a good eye-to-eye contact all the time. This doesn't mean though that you will not need to look away at every appropriate intervals. It is important that you also look away so that she will not feel uncomfortable.

The usual technique employed by many in starting a conversation with a date, is by being charming. Say the warmest "hello!" you can give. Give her the flirty gaze as well just so you get the attraction ignited.

When asking questions, ask those that require her to give you more than just a simple "yes" or "no" response. An example of a close-ended question would be asking her if she likes chocolate milk shake.

Such questions would be: "What is your idea of a vacation and why do you consider it to be so?" Such a question will eliminate the gaps in between conversations. Also, try to ask questions on subjects that you know will be interesting to her too.

An effective way to heighten her senses is by employing the sense of touch with the right timing. You want her to feel the physical attraction between the two of you. It is thus important that you do this appropriately. You don't want to appear disrespectful. Your purpose is to get her attracted to you.

Here is one way to go about doing it: look at her watch or jewelry and mention that you like it while you also grab her hand or arm in the process. This will make it look as if you have not planned touching her but merely closely looking at her accessories that you appreciated.

These are a few simple ideas, but can be effectively used as a guide to picking up women. If you employ these correctly, I guarantee you that youll be off to a good start. - 31368

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